做人要寬容，
寬容是一種素質，一種情操，一種美德。
寬容不是懦弱、膽怯。
而是海納百川的大度，是笑看風雲的爽朗。
Wednesday, 29 August 2012
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Sunday, 12 August 2012
How to Make Yourself Shine in 5 Ways
Whether you’re a businessman, a career person, a public servant, or someone who’s just living a simple life, there is that desire in your mind to shine and earn respect from the people around you. As an entrepreneur, you might wish that your product will draw great attention and get wide recognition. As an employee or professional, you may want your talents and skills to be noticed to earn promotion. As a public servant, you may want to earn trust and confidence from the public. Whatever you do in life, you have to shine and be appreciated by everyone.
The following are 5 ways to make yourself and your life shine.
#1 Focus where you’re really great at
Concentrate your time and energy on something that you can really do best – something that you can come up with the best result or the work of a genius. It doesn’t need to be trendy or popular, but it needs to be something that is unique and special.
Many people don’t emerge on top because they are only choosing the work that is hot right now or that will give them better income opportunity even though they are not good at it. This kind of habit only makes them poor performers instead of making them best workers.
To shine, you’ve got to find your passion – you’ve got to find a work for life. You have to know yourself to develop your true talent to the fullest. Even if your work is not in the popular category, if you can do it best among the best, you will shine and will make yourself popular. You may even become the reason to bringing that category into popularity.
So don’t just look up at the star, but be a star. Don’t jump on the bandwagon, but create your own bandwagon… where you can stand on your own.
#2 Polish yourself consistently
How do we make things shine – your shoes, nails, and other things? It is by polishing, isn’t it? And like those things, you also have to polish yourself to shine. By polishing we mean honing your skills and talents to constantly keep you sharp and shining.
That is why procrastinators and uninterested people don’t shine. That is why lazy people don’t stand out from the crowd. Procrastination, laziness, lack of enthusiasm, and the like are things which make you rusty. Therefore, be diligent and persistent in training and developing yourself on your chosen passion to get rid of rust and to keep yourself shiny.
#3 Help and serve people
If you will make people’s eyes shine, then you can also make yourself shine. Use your resources, economic or personal, to make people happy by helping them. If you are knowledgeable, you can share your knowledge. If you are rich and wealthy, then you can try sharing your financial blessings to the needy people. If you’re a business person or entrepreneur, you can simply perform your social responsibility with sincerity.
If you will help people with a cheerful heart, you will earn a lot of respect and admiration from them. They will be inspired by you. Those respect, gratefulness and inspiration from people will make you shine.
#4 Be humble and pure
In order to be shiny and bright, you have to see yourself on the top. But raising yourself should not be done by you. You should let the people raise you up. And how you can do that? You can do that by uplifting first these people’s lives. In other words, you should not be boastful and proud – this will only destroy your reputation. But instead be humble and keep on serving people so that they will be the ones to put you on the top. Isn’t a lamp shines bright when placed on the ceiling instead on the floor of your house?
You should also be pure. If you really want to shine, you should shine for others and not only for yourself. Most people who really shine great are the ones who don’t want to shine in the first place, but only wanted to help people and make our world a better place to live.
#5 Wait and achieve timing
Finally if you want to shine, you should learn how to wait. Discovering your true passion and special talents takes time, and polishing them even takes longer. Moreover, helping and inspiring people takes not only time, but even takes a significant part of your life. Thus, you really have to be patient. You should learn how to keep on waiting – just like waiting for a very long night until the sun shines.
Timing is very important because we can’t shine all the time. Even the stars don’t always shine on us. Therefore, don’t be too hasty. As long as you’re doing what you really love, constantly improving your special talent, helping people out, inspiring people, and staying patient… your time to shine will surely come.
The following are 5 ways to make yourself and your life shine.
#1 Focus where you’re really great at
Concentrate your time and energy on something that you can really do best – something that you can come up with the best result or the work of a genius. It doesn’t need to be trendy or popular, but it needs to be something that is unique and special.
Many people don’t emerge on top because they are only choosing the work that is hot right now or that will give them better income opportunity even though they are not good at it. This kind of habit only makes them poor performers instead of making them best workers.
To shine, you’ve got to find your passion – you’ve got to find a work for life. You have to know yourself to develop your true talent to the fullest. Even if your work is not in the popular category, if you can do it best among the best, you will shine and will make yourself popular. You may even become the reason to bringing that category into popularity.
So don’t just look up at the star, but be a star. Don’t jump on the bandwagon, but create your own bandwagon… where you can stand on your own.
#2 Polish yourself consistently
How do we make things shine – your shoes, nails, and other things? It is by polishing, isn’t it? And like those things, you also have to polish yourself to shine. By polishing we mean honing your skills and talents to constantly keep you sharp and shining.
That is why procrastinators and uninterested people don’t shine. That is why lazy people don’t stand out from the crowd. Procrastination, laziness, lack of enthusiasm, and the like are things which make you rusty. Therefore, be diligent and persistent in training and developing yourself on your chosen passion to get rid of rust and to keep yourself shiny.
#3 Help and serve people
If you will make people’s eyes shine, then you can also make yourself shine. Use your resources, economic or personal, to make people happy by helping them. If you are knowledgeable, you can share your knowledge. If you are rich and wealthy, then you can try sharing your financial blessings to the needy people. If you’re a business person or entrepreneur, you can simply perform your social responsibility with sincerity.
If you will help people with a cheerful heart, you will earn a lot of respect and admiration from them. They will be inspired by you. Those respect, gratefulness and inspiration from people will make you shine.
#4 Be humble and pure
In order to be shiny and bright, you have to see yourself on the top. But raising yourself should not be done by you. You should let the people raise you up. And how you can do that? You can do that by uplifting first these people’s lives. In other words, you should not be boastful and proud – this will only destroy your reputation. But instead be humble and keep on serving people so that they will be the ones to put you on the top. Isn’t a lamp shines bright when placed on the ceiling instead on the floor of your house?
You should also be pure. If you really want to shine, you should shine for others and not only for yourself. Most people who really shine great are the ones who don’t want to shine in the first place, but only wanted to help people and make our world a better place to live.
#5 Wait and achieve timing
Finally if you want to shine, you should learn how to wait. Discovering your true passion and special talents takes time, and polishing them even takes longer. Moreover, helping and inspiring people takes not only time, but even takes a significant part of your life. Thus, you really have to be patient. You should learn how to keep on waiting – just like waiting for a very long night until the sun shines.
Timing is very important because we can’t shine all the time. Even the stars don’t always shine on us. Therefore, don’t be too hasty. As long as you’re doing what you really love, constantly improving your special talent, helping people out, inspiring people, and staying patient… your time to shine will surely come.
Thursday, 9 August 2012
榮華富貴
從前，有一個賣水果的攤子，老闆因為年歲大了，無法久站招呼客人，於是就貼條子徵店員。過了幾天，來了一個年輕男子，問老闆一個月要用多少錢請他來幫忙，
老闆笑著說：「我們這小攤子生意，哪裡付得出月薪，當然是看你的努力，一天能賣多少水果，收到的錢就給你十分之一，每天領現。」
年輕人聽了，上下打量眼前這個破舊攤子，就臭著臉說不行，這太沒保障了，說完掉頭就走。過了幾天，又來了一位小伙子，問老闆薪水怎麼算，老闆又把領日薪的話說了一遍，這位小伙子聽了也想了一下，又問：
「日領月領都沒有關係，重要的是這水果攤一個月收入大概多少啊？」
老闆說水果有分季節，生意也有淡旺季，好的話可收五萬元，不好的話可能只有一萬元。小伙子聽了破口大罵，說這種生意做一輩子也得不到榮華富貴，只有笨蛋才會來賣水果。同樣的，說完就走了。
又過了幾天，又來了一位小男孩，問老闆薪水怎麼算，老闆同樣是說領日薪。小男孩聽了就笑了笑，對老闆說，可不可以在節日和周末時，把日薪的抽成比例調高，領當日收入的十分之二，如果當天收入超過一萬元，就領十分之三，如何？老闆哈哈大笑摸著小男孩的頭說：
「你真聰明，還知道節日和周末的生意比較好，就按照你所說的去做吧！不過，就算是節日或周末，營業收入要超過一萬元，可不容易啊！」
就這樣，小男孩開始用清水把水果都洗一遍，然後每天不停地變換水果的位置，節日或周末時，就貼出幾張海報，寫著消費滿一千元就送一百元的水果，任憑顧客挑選。
想不到第一個月，小男孩就領到了三萬元以上的薪水，等於平均日薪一千元以上。水果攤老闆雖然付出了不少薪水給小男孩，但他也樂得每天坐在搖椅上，看小男孩跑進跑出的，為他賺進比以前更多的鈔票。
幾年後，小男孩賺了不少錢，就把老闆的水果攤買下來，經過他的巧思，設計出更多促銷方案，生意比以前又更好，利潤當然也更高，於是他立刻開了第二家店，過幾個月又開第三家店，等到小男孩長大成人時，他已經成為億萬富翁，不到三十歲就擁有了榮華富貴。
根據調查，全世界的上班族，有百分之七十以上，都不滿意老闆給的薪水，即使知道老闆的生意下滑，收入減少，這些人仍然主張老闆要付更多的薪水。
很顯然的，這百分之七十的人，就是第一個來應徵水果店的年輕人。
他們要的只是一份保障，不管他們是否有全力去工作，或者他們的上班是否真的有幫到老闆，他們就是要老闆給自己一個穩定且不能打折扣的死薪水。
此外，我們相信，在這百分之七十的上班族中，也有不少是第二個來水果店找工作的小伙子，這類的上班族，都以為天底下的老闆，一生下來口袋裡就塞著一堆榮華富貴，住豪宅開好車吃美食，如果老闆不多分點好處給你，就是小氣吝慳，或心胸狹隘的守財奴，因此，只要工作一段時間，發現老闆不是很大方，或者感覺自己從事的產業沒有發展前景，就立刻跳船走人，結果就是不停換工作，然後，不停地在新老闆面前咒罵舊老闆的小氣和不是，直到老邁，還是找不到榮華富貴。
天底下沒有一個老闆，會送你榮華富貴的，老闆能給你的只有「機會」，你只有掌握手上的「機會」，為老闆增加收入，為公司賺到更多利潤，你才能反過來借用公司和老闆的資源，讓自己的船，因為公司的水漲而跟著高升。
不管你是賣水果或賣電腦，是做熱門或冷門產業，只要你能想通這個道理，你就能像小男孩一樣，從老闆手中接下更多的榮華富貴。
一起加油吧◕‿◕｡❤
老闆笑著說：「我們這小攤子生意，哪裡付得出月薪，當然是看你的努力，一天能賣多少水果，收到的錢就給你十分之一，每天領現。」
年輕人聽了，上下打量眼前這個破舊攤子，就臭著臉說不行，這太沒保障了，說完掉頭就走。過了幾天，又來了一位小伙子，問老闆薪水怎麼算，老闆又把領日薪的話說了一遍，這位小伙子聽了也想了一下，又問：
「日領月領都沒有關係，重要的是這水果攤一個月收入大概多少啊？」
老闆說水果有分季節，生意也有淡旺季，好的話可收五萬元，不好的話可能只有一萬元。小伙子聽了破口大罵，說這種生意做一輩子也得不到榮華富貴，只有笨蛋才會來賣水果。同樣的，說完就走了。
又過了幾天，又來了一位小男孩，問老闆薪水怎麼算，老闆同樣是說領日薪。小男孩聽了就笑了笑，對老闆說，可不可以在節日和周末時，把日薪的抽成比例調高，領當日收入的十分之二，如果當天收入超過一萬元，就領十分之三，如何？老闆哈哈大笑摸著小男孩的頭說：
「你真聰明，還知道節日和周末的生意比較好，就按照你所說的去做吧！不過，就算是節日或周末，營業收入要超過一萬元，可不容易啊！」
就這樣，小男孩開始用清水把水果都洗一遍，然後每天不停地變換水果的位置，節日或周末時，就貼出幾張海報，寫著消費滿一千元就送一百元的水果，任憑顧客挑選。
想不到第一個月，小男孩就領到了三萬元以上的薪水，等於平均日薪一千元以上。水果攤老闆雖然付出了不少薪水給小男孩，但他也樂得每天坐在搖椅上，看小男孩跑進跑出的，為他賺進比以前更多的鈔票。
幾年後，小男孩賺了不少錢，就把老闆的水果攤買下來，經過他的巧思，設計出更多促銷方案，生意比以前又更好，利潤當然也更高，於是他立刻開了第二家店，過幾個月又開第三家店，等到小男孩長大成人時，他已經成為億萬富翁，不到三十歲就擁有了榮華富貴。
根據調查，全世界的上班族，有百分之七十以上，都不滿意老闆給的薪水，即使知道老闆的生意下滑，收入減少，這些人仍然主張老闆要付更多的薪水。
很顯然的，這百分之七十的人，就是第一個來應徵水果店的年輕人。
他們要的只是一份保障，不管他們是否有全力去工作，或者他們的上班是否真的有幫到老闆，他們就是要老闆給自己一個穩定且不能打折扣的死薪水。
此外，我們相信，在這百分之七十的上班族中，也有不少是第二個來水果店找工作的小伙子，這類的上班族，都以為天底下的老闆，一生下來口袋裡就塞著一堆榮華富貴，住豪宅開好車吃美食，如果老闆不多分點好處給你，就是小氣吝慳，或心胸狹隘的守財奴，因此，只要工作一段時間，發現老闆不是很大方，或者感覺自己從事的產業沒有發展前景，就立刻跳船走人，結果就是不停換工作，然後，不停地在新老闆面前咒罵舊老闆的小氣和不是，直到老邁，還是找不到榮華富貴。
天底下沒有一個老闆，會送你榮華富貴的，老闆能給你的只有「機會」，你只有掌握手上的「機會」，為老闆增加收入，為公司賺到更多利潤，你才能反過來借用公司和老闆的資源，讓自己的船，因為公司的水漲而跟著高升。
不管你是賣水果或賣電腦，是做熱門或冷門產業，只要你能想通這個道理，你就能像小男孩一樣，從老闆手中接下更多的榮華富貴。
一起加油吧◕‿◕｡❤
Tuesday, 7 August 2012
【成长给曾经不够坚强的自己看】
更多荆棘，披荆斩棘，全靠这一副肉身。若不小心应对，难保不满身
过去无法重写，但它却让我更加坚强。我要感谢每一次改变，每一次
痛苦对人是必要的，没有痛苦，人既不能认识是什么东西对他有害，
不管前方的路有多苦，只要走的方向正确，不管多么崎岖不平，都比
美好生活没有预告。它经受住绝望的氛围，然后出现，步行而来，不
生活坏到一定程度就会好起来，因为它无法更坏。所以我们心中应该
怎麼瘦小腹！
【1定要健康】
每天早上起來，第一件事，就是空腹喝一杯蜂蜜檸檬水。
檸檬可以清熱减肥，美白皮膚。
蜂蜜对女人的作用更不用說
只要1周天就見效，没有任何副作用。
注意：
1.水要是冷的,不要熱的,也不要温的。因为蜂蜜
要冷喝才是潤腸。
2.十分鍾以後再吃東西。
3.一定要空
腹。
每天早上起來，第一件事，就是空腹喝一杯蜂蜜檸檬水。
檸檬可以清熱减肥，美白皮膚。
蜂蜜对女人的作用更不用說
只要1周天就見效，没有任何副作用。
注意：
1.水要是冷的,不要熱的,也不要温的。因为蜂蜜
要冷喝才是潤腸。
2.十分鍾以後再吃東西。
3.一定要空
腹。
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